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How to Find Dream Clients and Nurture Them

By Rachel Pedersen

I am so excited to be coming to you from my sisters place in Texas where I just got to meet my new niece. She joined us just 6 days ago!

It got me thinking ….

We’re all pretty used to nurturing a baby for 9 month before we get to see them.

But how would you feel about nurturing a client relationship for as long as it takes to grow a living baby inside you?!

Do you think you could do it?

Today I want to help you see why’d you want to do that and how to do it with Dream 100 Nurture Process.

It’s something that I think is going to be a huge and important valuable lesson for a lot of you – no matter what type of business you have.

So… what or “who” is the Dream 100?

For those of you are wondering, the Dream 100 is a simple but brilliant concept first introduced by Chet Holmes. It’s something literally any business can benefit from.

Yes …. ANY business! (even yours!)

So no matter what kind of business you have …. big, small, B2B, B2C, service-based, product-based – WHATever … you want to be thinking about who would be on your Dream 100 list.

The Dream 100 is a list of 100 dream-people or businesses that could benefit from your product, service, or offer. There are usually 3 types of people you’d put on your list:

  1. Businesses who’s audiences could benefit from what you do
  2. Businesses who would be your absolute dream clients
  3. Or a business who fits both of the above.

Really think about who you would like to advertise to and what communities would be interested in what you do.

Ask yourself > “Is there a business that would really benefit from sharing your offer and/or has a big following of people who would benefit from it?”

A good rule of thumb is to fill your Dream 100 with people and businesses who have an audience that is similar to the audience you want to attract – without it being directly competitive.

How do you get the attention of people on your Dream 100 list?
Sometimes, when we think about these people we can wonder how to get their attention. It can be a little bit scary. Overwhelming even!

One of the things that I’ve tried the last few years that has worked for me is really trying to figure out where they’re at by asking myself questions like this:

  • What is their life like?
  • What is their business like?
  • What are their pain points?
  • What are their frustrations?
  • What gets them stressed?
  • Where do they run out of time?

Then once I have an idea about all of those, seriously ask myself:

  • how I can simplify things and make their business flow faster and easier?
  • What can I do to support them and serve them?

It’s a little bit of a crazy way to think about it. Right!

And if you’re wondering how that applies to you I want to tell you about Keith, and what he did for me.
…. Because it’s so, so smart!

This is what Keith did for me…

I think the first step is to REALLY consider those people on your Dream 100 list. They probably have really big followings and you might even want to advertise to the lists and communities that they have spent years growing and nurturing.

I know I keep saying this, but it’s really important! Knowing what you can do for them is pretty much your first step.

Keith did that.

And when he contacted me to serve me with SEO I actually said no. His reputation is great so it wasn’t that. But because he’s so good, his services are crazy expensive. And honestly, it’s not really something I’m looking to do right now.

But here’s what he said to me – which surprised me SO much!

…“I’m comfortable with the long haul”.

And he really is!

He literally spends 9 months on average nurturing people before getting them as a client.
… That’s how he got people like Dr. Axe and Dave Ramsey as clients!

It literally takes him as long to nurture a relationship as it does to cook a living baby inside your belly!

Which, when you think about it, is insane! Especially when most people give up after the first week or even first call!
At first I didn’t believe what he said he was giving me

When I wasn’t ready to commit he came to me and offered to do my SEO Cleanup for FREE.

Honestly, I didn’t believe him because seriously, no one does anything for free. I had to get him to explain what that looks like and meant because I didn’t want to get stuck paying for SOMEthing I wasn’t expecting.

I was totally amazed when he said that he knew the value of building a relationship and serving with value first. And that’s why he wanted to give this to me for free – with (literally) no strings attached!

He also said that if I saw the value he’d be happy whether I wanted to work with him in a month or year. And if I never did, he was fine with that too!

He just wanted to provide value to me.

I was literally sitting there thinking “OhMYgosh! NObody does that!”

It was really powerful for me to see what it’s like when someone goes really deep into that “give give give” mentality with their Dream 100. It’s amazing how giving, then expecting nothing in return makes amazing and beautiful things pop open.

Can you guess what happened?

When he made that offer and was super genuine about it, guess what it makes me want to do?!

Now, whenever anyone I hear of asks about SEO Keith is the first person I recommend.

I want you to know that you can do the same thing too!

For a Dream 100 or the right business I’ve done social media strategy calls and have mapped-out tons of value up-front.

It always works! And that’s because it makes you seem different.

People can feel that you genuinely care about them and want to make their lives easier.

This is something you can start doing right now!

This really, really works and is such a powerful way to grow your business!

These are the questions to ask yourself:

  1. Who do I want to work with?
  2. Who’s audience do I want to get in front of, which is similar to mine (without being directly competitive)?
  3. How can I make their life easier?

Looking at it like that is so different than “how do I hook-them-in a with a free offer to win them over?”.
… and that difference is something people can actually feel.

Keith really did a great job of that which is why …..

…..Guess who I’ll be calling when it’s Go-time for SEO?

It’s so amazing to me because I know that when I’m really ready to start doing a massive SEO-push, I know that I’ll be calling up Keith saying “It’s Go-time Keith!”.

The Nurture Dream 100 Approach Is SO Powerful – Are You Ready For It?

I wanted to share this with you guys because I know that it’s so easy to get discouraged about what does and does not happen in a week, or even month.

When Keith said that he nurtures people for an average of 9 months I thought “that is so brilliant” considering how quickly most of us give up.

So seriously…
What do you think would happen if we were prepared to nurture a relationship for as long as we nurture a living being inside of our bodies?!

It’s such a cool way to think about it!

If you want to learn more about ways to find clients, check out my 80 Ways to Find a Client: https://rachelpedersen.clickfunnels.com/80-ways

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people think i’ll spill their secrets but i can’t people think i’ll spill their secrets but i can’t even remember why i opened the fridge

anyone else???
Adding this to the list of ‘Random talents I have’ Adding this to the list of ‘Random talents I have’ ✅🤣

Someone commented on this video and said my content catches them off guard, because it’s like a mix between businesstok and a finsta AND THAT IS THE BIGGEST COMPLIMENT ❤️ I want to give you everything you need to succeed but also show you my personality! 👯‍♀️

✨ This is your sign to go and have fun with your content today ✨
One comment can absolutely throw off your whole mo One comment can absolutely throw off your whole mood.

That does not mean you are fragile.
It means you are a person with a nervous system and a phone and a business and eyeballs.

Very normal.

The part that matters is what you do next.

Because the second you read something rude, your brain gets loud fast.

Your chest tightens.
Your fingers get fast.
And suddenly you are writing a full legal brief in your head like this stranger has personally been chosen for your closing argument.

I get it.

But reacting and leading are not the same thing.

Reacting is about relief.
Leading is about control.

And if you answer from the spike, it usually does two things:
makes the room feel weird
and leaves you feeling gross after

No win there.

Also, not every comment deserves the same energy.

Some people are confused.
Some are projecting.
Some are bored and using your comment section like a hobby.

Those are different.

So before you reply, ask yourself what is actually happening here.

Is this a real objection my quiet buyers might have too?
Is this my person, or just a random drive by with Wi Fi and opinions?
Is there something useful to clarify for the people reading without saying a word?

That is the shift.

Do not defend for the sake of defending.
Diagnose for the sake of the audience.

If somebody says, “this is stupid, this won’t work,” you do not need to perform confidence.

You can just say:
Totally fair question. What part feels unrealistic to you?

That response does a lot.

It slows the temperature down.
It makes the other person get specific.
And it shows the rest of the room that you are not rattled just because someone coughed in your direction.

Same thing with the classic “you’re just trying to sell.”

Okay.
And?

You can answer that without getting weird.

Clarity is not manipulation.
An offer is not a crime.
And calm does not mean passive.

So today, pick your move:
ignore the noise
ask one clean question
or turn the objection into content and help the people quietly watching

That is leadership.

#socialmedia #contentcreation #marketing #onlinebusiness #businessowner
Let me know if this hit the right side of IG 🤣 whe Let me know if this hit the right side of IG 🤣 where my PKs at?!

That heat round of public criticism (and private) was next level compared to social media hate.

Poul is a missionaries kid too haha!
I buy my own mockingbird (and then teach others ho I buy my own mockingbird (and then teach others how to buy theirs). 

Creating high-performing content doesn’t require 4 hours, a ring light, and a meltdown 😭

This is the exact system I use to batch a full month of video in 30 minutes - even on low-energy days.

And I’ll share it with you FOR FREE - comment VIDEOS below!!!

#contentcreation #socialmediatips #videomarketing #instagramgrowth #onlinebusiness businesstips
If I lost it all tomorrow no followers, no list, n If I lost it all tomorrow
no followers, no list, no proof, no cute little receipts to point at

I would not waste a week trying to look established.

That is where people lose so much time.

They try to look polished first.
Professional first.
Credible first.

And meanwhile nobody knows they exist.

No thank you.

If I had to rebuild, I would get visible immediately.

Short form video.
Raw.
Hook first.
Saying something real.
Not waiting until the lighting is flattering and the brand voice is having a good hair day.

Because the invisible stage is not the stage to over-style.

It is the prove it stage.
The rocky montage stage.
The “say something useful before your fear talks you out of it” stage.

And yes, the panic would absolutely try to jump in.

It would say:
you’re behind
you’re doomed
you had your shot

Cool.
Very dramatic.
But wrong.

Because sometimes losing the old version is not doom.
It is freedom.

No stale identity to protect.
No old audience to keep happy.
No pressure to keep performing as the version of you that built the first thing.

Just data.
Movement.
Rebuild.

So week one?

I would post daily.
I would repeat the hooks that hit.
I would build a tiny freebie before it was ready and let it be a little embarrassing.
Mine have been ugly before too. Still worked.

Because followers with no list is just noise with good lighting.

I would rather have 73 people on an email list who actually care than a pile of views and no way to catch them.

And yes, I would manually DM the link if I had to.
Like it is 2016.
Like I have bills.
Like I am not above doing what works before it looks impressive.

I do not need a head start.

I need a plan.
And I would make one fast.

#socialmedia #contentcreation #emailmarketing #onlinebusiness #marketing
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