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Here’s Why I Date my Email List and Why You Should Too

By Rachel Pedersen

Imagine this.

It’s a Friday night. You’re in a party. 

You’ve met someone. You two talked. Time passed. 

You’re starting to like this other person. It’s because you’re both sensing a lot of value from your conversation.

And of course, this person asked for your number. Without thinking twice, you gave yours and did the same.

You had coffee together, went on a few dates and this continued for quite a long time.

It was a typical relationship timeline: Date > Dating > Marriage (it did get that serious)

You get the point.

Have you ever noticed the similarities between generating leads, whatever your chosen medium is — emails, ads, lead magnets, LinkedIn, or even in-person events and…are you ready for this?

D-A-T-I-N-G

Yes!

Giving out your number to someone you’re interested with is just like giving out your email address (sometimes, your name, phone number, FB name and even your Tiktok username too) to a business or service provider that offers great Value and solves your pain point.

Receiving one email from the business/service provider and the recipient reading it out is just like starting to date.

A few more emails is similar to the ‘dating’ stage

Nurturing the relationship by going out for coffee or a drink, having more conversations or date nights, is the same thing as receiving and reading ‘nurturing emails’.

See the timeline?

Get the email address = Yes to dating you

Receive the first email = Dating stage

Read intro emails = Keep Dating

Receive nurture-automated emails = Nurturing the Relationship

You get the gist, right?

Now, let’s get down to business.

Even before the lead subscribes to your emails by opting in to a lead magnet, it’s a must to have your systems in place.

How?

Write all your emails first. I use Google Doc when writing my email drafts. This works for me but there are a couple other apps that work just fine: Evernote and the ever reliable Notepad to name a few.

Here’s a list of 5 emails you should write to nurture your leads.

*These emails should be sent before leads are passed on to the email list.

Email 1: Here’s Who I Am – introduce your Brand

Email 2: Here’s Why it Matters to You – what are the benefits of your products/services? What’s in it for them?

Email 3: Here’s the Backstory – include a story or a quote. This makes the tone more personal and relatable

Email 4: Here are the Options – lay the ground for whatever services or products you’re offering and emphasize what its benefits are

Email 5: Here’s the Next Step – move them to the next step. It may be a sale, an event attendance , a paid consultation or a coaching call

Once you get past email writing, everything will be much easier. I promise!

After getting all your emails ready, what’s the next step? 

Two Words.

Email Automation

Email automation allows you to create drip campaigns and nurture your leads without having to send it out to subscribers manually. I have listed the 5 initial emails in Tip #1.

Here’s a list of email marketing platforms:

  1. Active Campaign – https://www.activecampaign.com
    Active Campaign is my personal favorite. Please note that choosing an email platform depends on you and of course, your business needs.
  2. Mailchimp – https://mailchimp.com
  3. Keap (formerly Infusionsoft) – https://keap.com
  4. AWeber – https://www.aweber.com
  5. Actionetics – https://goto.clickfunnels.com/actionetics-demo

Each platform is unique and has its own cool features. Choose which will fit your email marketing goals.

Remember. Date your email list!

Dive on in!

If you want to learn more about writing emails, you can learn more here: https://www.listbuildingparty.com/join-now

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This can be extremely triggering for those of us who experienced that feeling in childhood. 

When the system failed us... 

When police showed up with bad intentions. 
When CPS never showed.
When people you begged to help betrayed you. 

“No one is coming to save you” can feel like a death sentence... One child trauma survivors know all too well. 

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^^^^ If that resonates with you, hear me now, please.

There is a stirring happening. 

A future of giants and titans who have saved themselves. They heard that line and got to work. 

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❤️

With that, I will be unavailable for the next 48 hours as I need sleep and rest. 

I’m so behind on comments and texts and responses. I’ll catch up soon 🙏

But we’ve got work to do, and we’ve all got to take care of ourselves before we can help others.
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My wise therapist once said “you should standup comedy, you make me laugh.” 

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And something happened for the first time in my life. I think the best way to explain it is… 

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If I met you at either event this past week - thank you for being YOU. 

As my life changes before my eyes (good changes - growth and opportunity), I have to say, it’s a constant reminder of how fortunate and favored I have been throughout my journey as an internet marketer. 

Love you all ❤️
“No one is coming to save me…” This picture was t “No one is coming to save me…”

This picture was taken right as that truth hit me like a 2x4. It stung.

We were rebuilding my business after 2022 and I was full of hope. I’d learned a lot and was ready to build right.

But the hits didn’t stop…

Surprise tax bill we weren’t prepared for…

Court case where I was intensely cross examined…

Kids with dreams, activities, uniforms, fees…

Then my dad died suddenly before I could ask important questions.

He hadn’t planned for a funeral - so we stepped up. $25k for his end of life. Our “rebuild” safety net, depleted.

Then I broke my hand racing and couldn’t type fast. How was I supposed to catch up?!

We still had full payroll and family on our team. If I didn’t work, nothing moved. I had to generate $80k a month to keep the lights on. With a dead dad and a broken hand.

So I worked through mourning.

And yet I was still angry at my parents - a dark, growing sliver of my heart embittered.

I couldn’t breathe - panic attacks hit daily. “Is this how being an adult goes? Is this the rest of my life?”

Looking around at leaders of industries, begging for a way free… only to realize the truth was obvious.

They too were on a conveyor belt of “keep the lights on” and “do more.”

WHERE WAS THE FREEDOM ENTREPRENEURSHIP PROMISED ME?

Entrepreneurship is incredible - I love business and marketing.

But we missed things along the way (like building security, becoming your own safety net - not just making more money to fix each crisis).

No one is coming to save me… or you. People don’t hand out parachutes for emergencies.

Depressing but I can handle truth. I prefer it.

So I did the internal work. Saving yourself is a long haul and I needed to be ready.

I forgave my parents (and today I’m so grateful for the relationships I have with my family and mom).

And I stopped believing entrepreneurship alone was enough. We need real battle plans for real life.

I found a way to build forever-security from a mentor I’d trade lives with. I’d love to share it once I’m off the belt fully.

Because…

No one is coming to save us - it feels unfair.

Yet it’s the truth.

Before you save the world, save you and yours ❤️
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$60 in the account. I had to choose between cupc $60 in the account. 

I had to choose between cupcakes for my kid’s birthday and food for the family.

That was the number I looked at a few years ago. AFTER I had achieved success.

I had made millions before that low moment... 

And was sitting there staring at a balance that didn’t work.

But honestly that wasn’t even the worst part.

The worst part was waking up and not recognizing my own life.

Bitter at the business.

Hollow in the relationships.

Even the thought of a regular job felt soul-sucking.

I just kept thinking… I need to change something.
(Anything. Please.)

And then I remembered.

I had forgotten the most important thing.

I was allowed to make a new choice.

You know that feeling? When your life looks nothing like what you thought it would, and somehow you’ve convinced yourself you’re stuck with it?

That was me. On the floor of my life, sobbing. 

Until I remembered I could become my own role model. The person I admired was able to be BUILT.

I had built it before. I just had to go back and pick up what I learned on the way up… and bring it with me on the way back.

People like us, we build things. We rebuild things.

Here are the things I focused on:

✨ Faith and imagination and delusion are closer relatives than you think (in business vision).
You need both to see something new where the old thing broke.

✨ You’re allowed to change your mind.
Try new things. Pick a new direction for a project.

✨ Take ownership for the things that aren’t your fault.
Especially those. That’s where your power lives. I’m not talking about childhood trauma... I’m talking about who you choose to be after it. 

✨ Lean on your creative imagination. It’s been waiting for you.
Work like hell on yourself. Not on the optics. On YOU.

✨ And do not have a single minute unaccounted for. I had become irresponsible with my time. I was calling self-pity “healing.”
When you’re stuck… serve. Help one person today before you close the laptop.

They will tell you it’s too late...
That THIS is just who you are now.

They are entirely, completely wrong (if you decide so).

You don’t need to burn down your life. 

You just forgot you’re allowed to build one you like.
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no explanation needed siblings taught me communic no explanation needed

siblings taught me communication without words…

shoutout to @bitchyquotes for this one 😂

#funny #relatable #childhood #chaos
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